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Her speech is littered with, ‘when I was younger’ as she talks about what she’s learned and how she’s grown in her 22 short years. Even over FaceTime (we millennials prefer to communicate from our bedrooms where possible) she has the self assured presence of someone much older.

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Lauren is a woman’s woman. Much of her monochromatic content is typical of the kind of post feminist feminism beloved of the Instagram generation. She mentions her female dominated family (she’s the youngest of four) countless times, and attributes her accomplishments to the women who inspired and mentored her.

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She’s uk canada goose getting into her stride now. “Absolutely they have a responsibility. If you’re making a living out of this and people are buying whatever product you’re putting out there, you have to be honest. How can you have that on your conscience? Surely that would affect you negatively in the long canada goose coats on sale run is canada goose outlet has to, like. If you’re looking at a picture of yourself and you have these unrealistic expectations, even if you’re the one who’s altered this image.”

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The guilt and the pressure built up until she reached breaking point. “I got quite sick. I wouldn’t say I was suffering from depression but I wasn’t far off it. It was a weird time in my life.”

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By the time she was 16, it was clear that she had the looks to make a real go of it. She got a canada goose clearance portfolio made up (“I actually hope I’ve burnt those pictures”) and hit the agencies. But her petite frame meant that she wasn’t picked up one agency in particular was so rude to her that she vowed she would never work with an agency.

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